FINDING COZY WITHIN MINIMALISM

Fall is my favorite time of year. Perhaps it’s because I have lived in Austin for almost 25 years and fall signals the beginning of cooler weather – a much needed reprieve from the months of oppressive heat. But fall is also the time of year we can embrace the cozy vibes. Warm coffee, cozy blankets, fuzzy pillows, and fragrant smells of fall baking and fall candles.This is the time of year that can be so tempting to get caught up in the current of consumerism. It starts with the beginning of the school year – new clothes, new shoes, school supplies, then trickles into new fall decor, new candles, Starbucks new fall flavored drinks. Then we roll into the holidays – Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. With these come more spending. We all want our spaces to feel cozy! But today I want to talk about something I’ve wrestled with for years: how to create spaces that are minimal and cozy. Some of this spending is inevitable. But I do think we can create cozy homes with what we have.

When I first started pursuing minimalism, I thought, “I could never be a minimalist.” I love decorating our home and making it feel inviting — that didn’t seem to fit the minimalist mold or minimalist aesthetic. I have been pursuing minimalism for over a decade, and I’ve realized minimalism isn’t one-size-fits-all. There’s no single definition, no box to check. To me, it simply means living with the things I use and love. With that in mind, here are the ways I keep my home cozy and inviting while still leaning into minimalism.

Finding the balance is one of the most important things. Balancing minimal and cozy hasn’t come naturally — I love decorating, but I don’t want my spaces to feel cluttered either. For me, it’s been a process of trial and error: setting up decor, living with it, and deciding if it feels right. The longer I’ve pursued minimalism, the easier that balance has gotten. And over the years I have found I actually enjoy a more minimally decorated home. Each person needs to find the balance that works for them!

Rotate instead of accumulate is something that has helped me on my minimalism journey when it comes to decor.  I do have holiday pieces like my stash for fall and Christmas, but most of my decor could work year-round. I have found just rearranging it for a new look helps curb my decor shopping. Moving pieces to a different room or setup keeps things feeling fresh without adding to my collection of decor. I also lean toward decor that transitions well across seasons, so I’m not packing everything up every few months.

Cozy isn’t always about stuff.  One of the biggest shifts for me has been realizing that cozy doesn’t have to mean more things — it’s a feeling you can create. This is the idea behind hygge (pronounced “hoo-gah”), a cultural practice that originated in Denmark and is embraced across the Nordic countries. It’s centered on engaging the five senses: layering different textures with pillows and blankets, using ambient lighting, playing calming music, lighting a candle, running a diffuser, or having something baking in the oven. A home-cooked meal or a warm loaf of bread can make a space feel cozy all on its own. Cozy minimalism is also about the people in the room. Creating a space where friends and family feel welcome — prioritizing conversation, hugs, or curling up together under a blanket — often does more for that inviting feeling than any object could. If anything, too much stuff can get in the way of those moments.

Order creates calm in your home.  A cozy space is also an orderly one. Clutter in our physical space tends to create clutter in our minds, and that’s not exactly peaceful. A clean, tidy space naturally feels cozier — and that’s a lot easier to maintain with less to take care of in the first place. When I first started exploring minimalism, the sparse, stripped-down spaces I saw in blog posts and videos didn’t appeal to me at all. But I’ve learned there’s a real balance to strike — and that minimal and cozy can absolutely coexist. I’d love to hear from you in the comments! Are you working toward that same balance between minimal and cozy? Or how do you make your space feel cozy for fall?

Here is the YouTube video I shared in conjunction with this blog post.

Minimal and Cozy

When I first started pursuing the idea of becoming more minimal I thought “I could never be a minimalist” because I really enjoy decorating our home to make it more cozy and inviting. Five years later, I’m realizing that “minimalism” is not a one size fits all. There is no true definition of minimalism, or a box you can put it in. To me, it just means living with the things I use and love. With this in mind, I wanted to share with you the ways I make my home cozy and inviting while still striving towards minimalism.

I know there are several books written on Hygge (pronounced hoo-guh), which is a Danish word meaning creating a mood of coziness or comfort. I haven’t read these books, but “The Little Book of Hygge” is on my reading list! I wanted to share with you what little I’ve learned from what I know of Hygge, and just how I have organically practiced it in my home. Coziness and an inviting space doesn’t have to equate to a lot of material things.

First, I like to use throw pillows, blankets, and rugs to warm up a space. I choose pillows, blankets, and rugs of different textiles to give depth and provide interest. I like to use different colors and textiles for the seasons. I try to purchase pillow covers instead of full pillows so that they are easier to store.

Next, I like to use plants throughout my home to give a feeling of aliveness to my spaces. I admit that many of my plants are fake plants as I struggle to keep live ones living. I do have several live plants throughout my home as well. Not only does it bring that feeling of life to a room, but it also brings that texture, organic color, and dimension. 

Third, lighting choice really does change the mood of a room. Using warmer tone bulbs, especially in the evening, creates a calming atmosphere. Using lamps as opposed to overhead lights, or even displaying twinkle lights in a fireplace or around a tree in your home can create this mood. In addition to that, lighting candles can create that soft light and cozy mood in your home.

Fourth, is scent. With scented candles, you can get the coziness of the light of the candle burning and the scent. You could also use an oil difuser to create that good smelling scent throughout your home. Another way you could get the coziness of scent is through baking or cooking. The smell of freshly baked cookies or bread in the oven, or perhaps a pot roast fills your home and creates that feeling of coziness and warmth. Lastly, you can create those good scents through cleaning products, which leads into my next point…

Fifth is order. Most humans thrive in a space that has order. Chaos in our physical space can breed chaos in our minds, which does not lend to a feeling of coziness or peace. I have different practices which help keep my home tidy, which I have a blog post about and you can read that post here. When things are put away, and clean this lends to a feeling of coziness. 

Lastly, surrounding yourself with things you find beautiful – whether that’s family photos, books, or intentional home decor. In spite of what some people think, “minimalism” doesn’t have a number of certain things. It’s whatever makes YOU feel comfortable, and whatever brings YOU joy!

I hope this post inspired you to find new and creative ways to create a feeling of cozy throughout your home.

Here is the YouTube video I made with this information.