Laundry Tips & Tricks, Sharing My Laundry Routine

I’m not really sure why, but laundry is my favorite chore to do. Maybe it’s the same reason I like organizing, because it turns chaos – a big pile of dirty, stinky clothes, into order – everything neatly folded, put away, and smelling clean! I have a laundry routine that works well for me and I have been doing it for years! I’ve been married 24 years, and we have three children – one just graduated from college, one in college, and one in high school. I have been doing this same laundry routine for as long as I can remember. From the multiple outfits of toddlerhood to everyone having sports clothes! I wash our clothes once a week! I wanted to share with you some laundry tips. Some of these relate to doing laundry only once a week, but they could apply to however often you prefer to do laundry.

Here is the video I made in conjunction with this blog post if you want to check it out!

 My first tip is to separate clothing. I know, I know… I sound like your mom, right? This does prevent clothes colors from bleeding onto lighter clothing, and it also helps so you can choose the appropriate washer settings. I like to do four types of loads: darks (usually two loads a week, we got down to one load while my two older kids were in college and doing laundry on their own), lights (one load per week), load of dark towels/socks/underwear, and a load of light towels/socks/underwear (sometimes I push this load off until later in the week when I wash my sheets if it’s not big enough). I know this may not work for everyone to separate their laundry, particularly if you are someone who does laundry every day.

Wash socks, underwear, towels, and sheets together on hot. I like to wash all of these items on hot to be sure that they are disinfected as well as cleaned. 

Pre-treat stained items. Since I only do laundry once a week, I like to treat stained items immediately and just let the stain treatment set until the laundry day. This could be done no matter how often you do your laundry!

Own at least two sets of sheets per bed and two towels per person so you can replace them immediately. I find that two sets of sheets per bed and two towels per person is sufficient. One set for on the bed/on the towel rack, and one set for in the linen closet or in the laundry.

Use wool dryer balls instead of dryer sheets. They are reusable, and so environmentally friendly, and they don’t have chemicals like some dryer sheets do. You can add essential oil to the balls for a fresh scent. I like to store my dryer balls in a glass jar on a shelf about my washer and dryer as they also double as great laundry room decor!

Check your pockets before washing any items! I learned this the hard way after washing a pen with my laundry one time. Since then, I have not done a perfect job at this and have washed all kinds of things including our key fob one time! But not to worry, it actually still worked!

Do an entire load, start to finish so you don’t forget it. This also helps reduce wrinkles if you take the laundry out of the dryer immediately and hang it up so less likely to have iron clothes.

Hang dry items that are wet or sweaty before putting them in your laundry basket. This may be an obvious tip! I have found that the one drawback to only doing laundry once per week is the laundry getting moldy/musty smelling. It does help that we have a laundry shoot in both bathrooms, so our laundry is concealed. If we do have something that is wet – like a bathing suit or workout clothes we hang those up to dry before putting them in the basket.

Be sure to read the labels on your clothes, not only to determine what temperature is ideal to wash the garment, but also to line dry anything that should not be put in the dryer. I also like using a lingerie bag for any bras or bathing suits that could get tangled in the wash.

Keep laundry baskets where people take their clothes off. We keep a laundry basket in each bathroom and then one in the laundry room. I have a rule that if it’s not in the laundry basket by Monday (laundry day), then it won’t get washed.

Well, I hope this gave you some tips that you have never thought of doing! Please let me know of any tips you have that I missed!

How To Keep Your New Year’s Resolutions

We are just a few weeks into the new year. This is usually the time people begin to drop off on their New Year’s resolutions. It can be challenging to make life-long changes overnight. People often set goals at the new year: to lose weight, to eat healthy, to get organized, to name a few. Often, people use the new year as an incentive to muster up enough willpower to make the changes they want to make. But somewhere mid January or early February, the willpower isn’t enough and slowly the goals that had been set begin to go by the wayside.

To make lasting changes, I propose that instead of setting goals or making resolutions, you should focus on your habits. When we practice small, repetitive actions day in and day out, this can more effectively lead us to our goals. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against goal setting or making resolutions. That process is fun and exciting because we get to imagine and dream what life could be like. Resolutions are future oriented – making it easier for us to come up with lofty goals, because it is our future self that will have to have the follow through! One of my favorite sayings from the tv show, How I Met Your Mother, that I like to use when I’m procrastinating is “I’ll let future Joy worry about that.” And that’s exactly what we are doing – creating perhaps unattainable goals, and hoping our future selves will have follow through. This is often why year after year nothing actually changes.

I would like to share with you 6 things you can do in order to actually attain your goals.

{ONE} Put it on your to-do list. Habits happen by making something a part of your routine. Whatever you want to achieve, put it on your to-do list and then don’t make excuses and just do it! You want to exercise three times a week? Schedule it in. You want to spend more time with friends? Plan a standing weekly or monthly get together and have it on your calendar. You want to drink more water? Put timers on your phone to remind you to fill up. Want to get organized? Put it on your calendar each week to spend time purging and organizing a space in your home. Over time, these practices just become part of who you are.

{TWO} Choose the “basic solution” over the “quick fix.” Often times, along with resolutions, people buy in to “quick fix” solutions. Whether it’s a special herbal tea, a protein shake, or vitamins and supplements, these things can’t replace what will truly make a lasting change. Making it worse, marketers play into this desire we have to find a quick fix. These quick fix solutions nor our will power can replace making changes in our habits. If we focus on basic solutions and make those a part of our habits, we are more likely to succeed. A basic solution to the goal to “get healthy” might be to get 7-8 hours of sleep at night, to drink 8 glasses of water a day, to exercise a certain number of times per week, instead of taking pills or drinking teas or shakes.. We all know, there are really no shortcuts. People want some magical or secret solution, but the truth is that change happens through small, repetitive actions everyday. 

{THREE} Let your habit connect to a priority in your life. If we want change, we must make these stepping stones to our goal a priority. If you value exercise, friendships, health, organization, then your habits must follow. The good thing about a priority leading your habit and not a goal leading it, is that you can change the habit if it’s not working for you. With a goal, if you “fail” once you feel like you have to start all over and this can be daunting. Say you make it a goal to exercise three times per week. Well, in February you get sick, and it derails this goal. At this point it could be easy to just give up. Habits are easier to “start over.” If exercise is a habit, then when you miss a week of it because of illness, you start over next week! You don’t have this feeling of guilt when you “failed.” Goals are great platforms to make changes in your life, but priorities ultimately dictate our behavior.

{FOUR} Reward yourself. It’s important to have small rewards along the way. This reinforces the behavior. Whether it’s external rewards – like having a soda or beer on Friday night after drinking your 8 glasses of water each day that week, or internal rewards – acknowledging how good you feel after a workout to remind yourself that it’s worth it!

{FIVE} Create an environment or systems to help you succeed. Often times we fail because we don’t have the needed systems in place to foster success. In the example of wanting to drink more water – buy a new water bottle, or have a water bottle out and ready to fill up in the morning, or set timers throughout the day to remind you. Visual cues will remind you to do what you set out to do.

{SIX} Don’t expect perfection. As I mentioned previously, it can be hard to keep chugging along after failure. If you miss a day of exercise, or eat a cheeseburger instead of a salad one day, THAT’S OKAY… start over the next day. It’s difficult to perfectly stick to good habits. Illness, travel, and special celebrations can get in the way of keeping our routines. It’s important to just keep moving forward with your habit.

I hope this encourages you that you CAN succeed in your resolutions this year. Focus on habits instead of goals. Habits are DAILY DECISIONS that can help you achieve your goals!